About a month ago I posted about my inability to make a concise decision. Unfortunately.. this affects every area of my life. If we go out to dinner.. I hate to be the one who has to decide on the location. Or pick the movie. What do you wan to do tonight? I don't know.. what do YOU want to do?
Making decisions is not my strong point.
For years.. I've tried to focus on changing this aspect of myself. But that hasn't served me well either. Now my problem? I make a decision.. a matter of fact decision. Then what do I do... I CHANGE MY MIND!!!
It's driving me crazy. My current issue? The same thing. I'm still having doubts about my dress. Any thoughts out there on what to do? I haven't put my dress on.. or even seen it.. in 6 months. Maybe thats my problem? Maybe I should just put it on again and maybe I will fall in love all over..
Or maybe...........maybe I should look into other options? My mom would kill me. Love would kill me. I already own my dress. Sell it and find another? Really? I don't know.
Oh but that's not all.. I hate change. I've always been terrified of the 'unknown'. I can't stand when my plans don't work out they way I planned them. If I don't know what to expect.. it drives me crazy. So here I sit.. big changes in store for my little family. As soon as I can I will share them with you. Some things are still yet to be determined.. I think thats the part that drives me nuts. When my whole world is about to change as I know it.. I need time to adjust. Time to accept and appreciate. You can't just pull the rug out from under me!
Oh I can't wait until I can share with you all what I'm talking about.. Stay Tuned.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
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Keep your dress! I'm sure it's wonderful and you're just freaking out because it's been so long. I've known tons of people who have gone through the same thing, and all have kept the original dress and still loved it on the big day!
ReplyDeleteYes, definitely keep your dress. I think you'll love it just as much as the day you bought it. I bought my dress 15 months (seriously) before our wedding and I had some of the same fears - what if I fall "out of love" with it, what if it's not my style anymore, etc. But it was my PERFECT dress and I wouldn't have had any other dress on that day. I'm sure your stress is just expressing itself in the form of doubting yourself; don't worry and trust your initial instincts of why you bought the dress in the first place! Good luck :)
ReplyDeleteOh sweet darling daughter...I would not "kill you" for changing your dress! Even figuratively speaking. I want you to be the happiest Bride to ever walk down the isle. I already know you will be the most beautiful, in whatever you wear!I may choke you some for letting this stress you out...but maybe, instead, I'll spend this weekend making you laugh a lot so you can relax! I will make you pull it out and try it on again, just so I can re-assure you how gorgeous it is on you! As you love to say..."At the end of the day" you wear the dress YOU want to wear. Your groom will be WOWED no matter what!
ReplyDeleteI'm always your biggest fan, BG! ..... batm
ok so what is the thing you cant wait to tell us...as matron of honor...i want to know!!! just kidding. so if there are big changes and we already know about the dress...what could it be...hmmm. could the five year plan be wittled down to nine months...lol. i guess we will all have to wait and see, in the meantime i will only buy things in green and yellow. gotta love me!
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